I posted the question on how to get Exceed to work to make a home pc an xterm. Here is what I did to get it to work in case anyone else asks in the future:
To setup Exceed at home to interface with remus/romulus or eden as it works in the lab:
Go to Xconfig in the Exceed Program group in the Start Menu: Click Xconfig: Click on Screen Definition:After that it should be all configured. The only thing remaining is to click on Exceed in the Exceed Program group in the StartMenu. Replace remus with eden or romulus.
Set Window Mode to be Single. Click ok and exit Screen Defintion. Go to Communication: Set Mode to be: XDMCP-query Click Configure which is right next to it: Under XDMCP Startup Modes: Connect Host: remus.rutgers.edu click ok and exit XDMCP Startup Modes click ok and exit Communication. Exit Xconfig.